me just came back from Kukup, Malaysia. enjoyed myself at there with my classmates, more photos will up at my facebook. :)

eat a lot of seafood. :) did not sleep a lot and ton overnight. learned how to play mahjong better and well. :)

going to rest a while, physically very tired...

Updated@9:59 PM

attended Men's United meeting at church just now. enjoyed and empowered too. :)

tomorrow going Malaysia with my classmates. :) looking forward to have fun and enjoy myself.

baby, do miss me and continuous miss me alright, u too also enjoy yourself at the gathering and bbq. :)

going to pray then sleep le, tomorrow going to wake up early :)

Updated@1:16 AM

I have just finishing talking to a few people on the phone..... Life is still as normal for me but kinda quite disturbed by the topics I am going through.

Man are most vulnerable to haresh and negative words being said to them. It is men's nature to behave rebellious and ignore the one who says all these words. I was thinking : Why men cannot rephrase the words being said, in the sense, why the expression and emotion expressed make it to the listener so negative and negative, thus arguments & frictions revolved out and hurt the relationship. I am talking about any relationship, not in the love relationship necessary.

I, myself gone through both the one who says and the one who listens. I am confused really..

As I relax my mind and close my eyes for a while after I was thinking, God speaks to me. All these matters are just small and minor compared to the Love Of God which He has given us. Love cover all areas.

For the one who says those harsh and negative words, their first intention is to try to change and present their love to the listener but in a another form, but this in the end make it more negative...

I really hope ppl don't try to use harsh and negative words on others when trying to show their love and concern for the other parties, especially do not try to correct the other person.

Men has freedom and time of their own. Men do not like people to control and correct them. I am ok if things goes wrong and need to do some correction but not in every sense which makes it the listener suffers just because in the eyes of the sender, she correct this correct that and make it onto the listener. It is really not fair to the listener..

p.s : sorry if i use my own words to say something, my own language, my english.. Anw, this is my blog, I can do whatever I like to do over here.. RIGHT!!! lol....

Well, I am going to pray and pray for those people that I have talked to just now, you know who you are. :) God Bless.... nitez.....

Updated@11:32 PM

went for service today, attended the most exciting and empowered service. the drama plus Pastor Kong's preaching really blow me and Huixian away.. looking forward to next 3 point Love Busters....

after that, went to Jurong Point Pizza Hut with Huixian, had lunch there, after which went back home... stayed over until 10 plus 11 before heading home, enjoyed my company with her..

Btw, coming Fri, Men's Manhood Seminar By Pst Phil, super looking forward to it, though I will miss coming weekend services due to going to Ku Kok which is in Malaysia(pardon me if i spell wrongly). I am going together with my classmates. total 10 of us... good gathering and fellowship anticipating for me.

I prayed to God to use me to be a vessel to shine and be a good testimony as I begin to share my testimony and shared the gospel to them. :)

A friend forwarded this email to me and I thought it’s really good. Now that we are in the season of building strong marriages and relationships, this mail sum it all up with learning to love the person you found or rather, you have chosen. Always remember what Dr A.R Bernard said before,”Choose what you love and love what you choose”. And it’s sad that people are not loving what they have chosen.. when in the very first place, they were given a choice in who to love! I’m not judging and in no position to. But I really think it’s time that humans learn to stick to their choice and get on with it! Always easier said than done, fully agree.. then don’t just keep doing the easy thing that is saying it’s impossible, do it..make it work pal! Do the right thing and the right emotions will flow..

I’m praying for you those who are reading this......

Updated@12:08 AM

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?" I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"
Here's the answer. EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse / partner . You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit). Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU .
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU . Falling in love is easy . It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship . Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies , instead of being cute, drive you nuts.The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.
This is when marriages breakdown . People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better.

But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this): THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience.

It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy . And most importantly, it takes WISDOM . You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage. Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make"love . Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

Remember this always : "God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go."

Updated@12:05 AM

today went for the relationship seminar at The Legends at Fort Canning Park. enjoyed the sessions by Pst Tan and Pst Kong. :)

after that we went out, shopping, eating and having fun with each other, as it was raining, we went to Raffles City Shopping Centre, Suntec, Marina :)

went back tgt to her home, slacked there for a while before heading home...

tml gg to church for service, Pst Kong mentioned the service will be a good one. :) looking forward to it.....

nitez...

Updated@1:09 AM

my dry skin is peeling off.. aftermath of sentosa trip.....

long day today and tomorrow.. :)

Updated@12:40 AM

back home after went for the wedding.. quite tired now...

going to bath before going to pray then sleep le, tomorrow another long day....

Updated@12:06 AM

had a long day today, went sentosa. had very good time with friends and cgms... enjoyed a lot. went to whye boon and shannon's baby 1 year celebration. after that came back home. discover I am tanned but with tank marks, ugly on my body... haha.

tomorrow back to school, after school going back home before going to Huixian's sister wedding.. looking forward to it....

kinda tired.. going to sleep soon, after I go and pray.... ciao....

Updated@11:34 PM

back to updates, had night cycling, after effect, no sleep and red eye till now... very busy since fri till mon.. power packed... very tired physically and mentally...

tml going sentosa... hurray. looking forward to it with both cgs.. :)

Updated@12:52 AM

sorry for late updates, been busy. once reached home from school, busy till very late. getting more tired easily nowadays... more schoolworks, cg stuffs, cg devotional stuff which i want to do more act and etc... but nowadays I really more quality time with my family. :)

This Sunday outing to Sentosa still on... Hurray!!! after many times of changing ideas... I will be bringing my classmates to go... going to have a good and fun time with my classmates and members.. :)

please continue keep me in prayer, still having cough and running nose and tire easily... maybe my body getting weaker le... I pray in Jesus's name right now, I will be made whole and well and healthy once again.. :)

more updates later....

Updated@12:04 PM

updates.. had school today then back home...

am still having cough and flu, please continue to pray for me....

going to pray then sleep le....

Updated@12:57 AM

am back home, more updates...

after slacking at NAFA, we went to eat one of the shop opposite, but I did not eat. am fasting.... After eating, we took train to Pioneer, then watch to church. It was raining heavily when we walked halfway, was slightly drenched.... Pastor preached about caring system in cg... enjoyed it.. We get to share testimony as well...

After that, talked to members for a while, afterwhich went to opposite coffeeshop to fellowship...

talked about anything... after which go back home le....

tomorrow they going to do the devotions which I don't think I can make it... see how first...

update again....

Updated@12:14 AM

updates for now... am at NAFA with my cgms doing the devotions and planning... breaking fast later...

later going back to JURONG WEST CHURCH for combined cg.. going to have a good time later...

Updated@5:56 PM

back to blog. try to edit some stuffs in the blog but failed but managed to upload my archives. i was amazed back to the last time entries i wrote.. still reading though... back to 2004 then...

today rainy day.. good day to sleep, but still had to go school, had 1st class of Business Stats. quite interesting and refreshing class for me as i studied before but kinda forgotton, after that initial plan is to go and find Huixian but in the end did not. went Jp instead. After that want to go and find her, but she rejected. really sad.

After I reached home, had a good meal and time with my mum, watch tv together too... After which back to my computer to do my stuffs..

tomorrow have IT class le after which going to Nafa find mikki together with my cgm to print out the edited devotions.. Afer that, rush to JW church for combined cg meeting with Pastor Zhuang... kinda long day for me tomorrow....

p.s : I really want to spend quality time with you and accompany u. I really need your attention and respect...

Updated@12:38 AM

THANKS XUE TING FOR YOUR WISHES AND CELEBRATION AND PRAISES!!!

appreciate it from the bottom of my heart....

do view her blog at my links there under "Xue Ting"...

Updated@1:14 AM

hihi, i am back home and i blog about today...

2nd item which is from :

ALDO ITEM from ALDO Shop


She told me actually it contains cuff links inside but I don't believe it.. I Guess it is a watch which it is indeed a watch.

my favourite leather big face watch

I love this 2 gifts from her... appreciate the sincerity and effort... love her so much... :)

going off le, going to pray then sleep. update again....

Updated@12:02 AM

back for updates and photos... had my birthday celebrations today. I get my 1st gift from xue jun. She gave me a bottle full of stars and all are handmade, really appreciate it...

Updated@11:23 PM

Updated@12:48 PM

Happy 11th month annivasary to Huixian and I, and It is also my birthday today....

looking forward to today, though my gf will be in malaysia, at her sister's wedding and I going to join her on Sun morning. going to prepare soon to meet my cgm for lunch...

God, I lift up this day to you, bless it and I want to pray for my health to recover as I have been coughing quite badly....

more updates later.....

Updated@12:17 PM

hihi, i am back to blog, just came back home not long ago. had a fruitful day today.. Thank God for that.. late afternoon, went to Bukit Batok to get the durian puffs and the mini durian cake. It is simply nice for durian lovers. It is D24 durian puffs and cake, though i am not appreciate the good stuff, i brought the mini cake for my cgms to try and they simply love it and still have the smell after eating, lol... After I get the durian stuffs, went off to Huixian's house to put the puffs and cake. Accompanied her mum to town with Huixian, though I never joined them...

I met up with my cgms The My Life committee and the cgcs and Shaun and of course my mini-cake. We had a good discussion and after which we went off.Shaun went off and for us we initially wanna watch movie, but the timing not right for us. We went to Cine the Koboyashi to eat.. After finished eating, the Xue Ting and Jermaine went off to toliet, so we at the table talking. I was sitting facing the shop inside and to my surprise, they celebrated my birthday... I was kinda surprised and they sing birthday song to me loudly. I am embarrassed.. Haha. So many eyes looking at me...

I made a wish, actually a few wishes.. I shall attach the photo below...

Updated@1:13 AM

am still having cough and sore throat, now plus flu le, maybe due to not enough sleep.

going to rest for a while. later going to somewhere to get something before going to someone's house before going to centrepoint to meet my cgm and shaun. this has to be secret, in case someone reads my blog and find out. updates later when the event ended..

had a good talk with cheryl and spending time with God, as I pray, God reminded me of my first love for Him and huixian. Whatever things happen, I am still stand still waiting for Him. no matter what problems I have with Huixian, love covers everything. the unconditional love God has put in me will flows to huixian's side. I really love her a lot...

p.s : I promise I will change for the better, and up to your expectation. thanks for showing me that verse, actually i have been meditating that verse too. I really treasure you and appreciate you.

I going to have a rest, just ate my medicine. pray that I have a good rest before going out later.

TOMORROW IS MY BIRTHDAY!!! looking forward to tomorrow....

Updated@12:02 PM

hihi!!! am back to blog, finally my papers ends. so happy.. so weekend is coming le... anw, after paper, my classmates and I without asking how is the paper we had just go for our planned outing. since paper has ended, and we shall not talk about it, we go as planned to our destination. We are going Bugis there to have steamboat. the place we are going is my first time, not bad enviroment. air-con place while having steamboat. kinda fun. before we had our meal, we feels very cold and need to wear jacket man...

I also saw my church friends at there having their meal, I think supposely it is their adult cg. We had a good time eating and chatting with each other.. actually they planned for this steamboat and also to celebrate my bday too. btw the steamboat is around 18++ but after everything is around 23 bucks, kinda good price as they provide free water and services to us... enjoyed myself with the rest, though I did not eat a lot.

After the paper, we walk around Bugis area then we went for pool session. We walked from one part of Bugis then to the other, finally we decide to play at Pool FusionII rather than Pool Junction due to fully packed. We had a good time over there. We played until 11 plus before heading home. I tool mrt instead as it is raining and i afraid by the time I go and take bus 502, it will be late. reached home around 12 plus.

tomorrow plans actually going out with huixian and her mum but now cancelled. kinda miss her and wanna meet her, but now cancelled. ask me to have my own plans instead. I understand she is very busy now. Well Well, don't know how she will be celebrating my birthday. Tomorrow, maybe meet my cgms to print the devotions together since i am free. gotta see how tomorrow. well, finally tonight can sleep well and comfortably with the rain still ongoing...

ok, going off le, going to pray then go sleep le.

p.s : pray that my 2 paper will do well.. :)

Updated@12:56 AM

been muggin for quite some time, kinda tired le. going to pray before going to sleep. God, I lift up this paper and me that I will do this paper well and bless it..

kinda stress and sick now, been coughing and no recovery after since i drink cough syrup. pimples coming out too.. weather kinda hot too.. please continue to keep me and my exam in prayer.

i miss her...

Updated@1:13 AM

take a break from studying to blog for today, guess today I will be stuck at home to mug. had informed my supervisor this evening I cannot work le. thank God she allows, grateful to have a good and supporting supervisor. had a late breakfast, think I going to eat my lunch and dinner together later bah since no one at home...

My Life Committee, thanks for doing the devotions for this week so fast, U are Great... can't wait for the full strength to work this My Life together. yeah.. 2 more days for me before I can relieved..

I will be packed from now till Sunday. Today will be at home studying, tomorrow exam until evening after which have steamboat with my classmates and also to celebrate my birthday. Yeah My Birthday is on 7th Mar, coming sat. They going to celebrate for me earlier due to my other involvement. Fri, I suppose will meet Huixian and her mum to go town, but maybe I need to go for cg. Shaun wants us to go especially the My Life committee. I thinking they might celebrate my birthday as well.. Haha... Sat, late morning will be in church serving in hospitality, then service after which hopefully got more celebrations, still waiting for my work place to celebrate for me... if not other plans le. My gf wants me to go in to Malaysia on sat night, because the day is her sister's wedding. I am invited too... My birthday celebration with her will be postponed due to the preparation of the wedding and she is very busy. kinda sad, but I understand her situation.. wonder wonder what she gets for me and how she celebrate for me.. kinda looking forward to it...

This year I am --th years old le, kinda old compared to the peers around me... My birthday wish list is on my facebook notes there. Do GO there and take a look... I really want a black leather nice simple big face watch... I am so into watch now... Haha.... guess my age prefers watch le. I do not want tees and jeans le or accessories, as my gf says I look too gay, duhz.. It is the accessories that match and bring out the style of the person... Anw, I am looking forward to this week with much excitement and enthu. God, I pray that from now till end of this week, U Bless it and make it a fruitful week for me. Amen.

ok, going back to my studies, update again. :)

Updated@12:51 PM

am back from church after watching video and learning to witness people through our own personal testimonies. It is really true and practical to use it on your friends. I am going to write down mine and practice it. Our own personal testimonies will not change over the years unless there is added information to it but the whole body of the tesimony will not change. I also learnt about gift-giving through the video too. It really opens up one's heart.

Anw, I just finished my tough paper today. Business Law. finally.. pray that I can do well for it... After the paper, met up with xueting, jermaine, lay hwa and bowen to go church tgt. I had not had my dinner but I was not hungry though at that time. I was still stress still and no appetite to eat due to my sickness. I am still having cough and sore throat. Please continue pray for me.

online for a while, check my mails before getting back to my muggin, next paper on thur. PLease continue pray for me.... thanks.... :)

Updated@12:16 AM

just take a break from my muggin, tomorrow is my business law paper. quite fearful of the paper actually, a lot to study and memorise.. after studying, going to pray for a while before sleep.

p.s: My Life Committee, tomorrow Jia You to do the devotions together. :)

alright, gtg le, if not someone will complain me going online for long. nitez...

Updated@1:32 AM

Hi Guys, sorry been quite some time never blog le. been blog hopping, faithfully see those i add as favourite blogs. been busy with life. But that is good. I enjoyed it better than slacking and doing nothing else. Life is still same as usual but just to update those who doesn't know anything...

I am still attached to my gf, Huixian, still working in SKIN & Ed Hardy. still in my cg W426 with Shaun, still in my hospitality ministry, still schooling. still have my gf's family and my family. WOW, so many committment right. How to cope well with every individual of them. If I am the last time Kevin, I might think i cannot do it at all... But with God's strength, grace and faith and wisdom, i managed to do it reasonably well I suppose. From Day 1 of this year to now, been 3 months le. Not that bad, some challenging lifestyle, Chinese New Year, First time out of Singapore to go Malaysia with my gf, to her relative's side. Also, First V-day with my gf, she enjoyed. the gifts and dinner and my accompany makes her pleased which also makes my day. I get to receive her hand-made V-day Big Heart Shape Card. I know it really takes her time and effort to make. I appreciate it... I love her a lot.

Anyway, I am taking a break now from my muggin, so take this time to blog. I wish for time to pass fast for this week and I can enjoy le.. Haha.

Updated@5:41 PM